My Boyfriend Thinks That the Springbok Rugby Team Is Unbeatable – What Now?

Discovering that your boyfriend believes the Springbok Rugby Team is unbeatable is probably true right now but may become an interesting topic to explore together later (or in the bedroom!).

Here are some steps you can take to address this situation:

1. Listen to His Perspective: Ask him why he feels the Springboks are unbeatable. Understanding his viewpoint can help you appreciate his passion for the team. Then show him real passion for 80 minutes.
2. Engage in a Friendly Discussion: Share your thoughts on the Springboks and rugby in general. This can lead to a lively and enjoyable conversation about sports. Remember Rugby is NOT a Water Sport so don’t go there!
3. Explore Statistics and History: If he’s open to it, you might want to discuss the history of rugby and the Springboks’ performance over the years. This can include their wins, losses, and key matches. Show him how much weight you have lost (or gained, if he is a feeder) – maybe that will lead to a key scrummage in the home!
4. Highlight Other Teams: Gently introduce other strong rugby teams that have had success against the Springboks, such as the All Blacks or England. This can foster a healthy debate. If you are so inclined, invite a member of another team over (like a Springbok women’s prop) for a match of a different kind!
5. Attend a Game Together: If possible, suggest attending a Springbok game or a rugby match together. Experiencing the excitement of live sports can be a fun bonding activity. Take that brandy and coke bonding home for more fun and games.
6. Respect His Passion: Recognize that sports fandom can be deeply personal. Even if you don’t share the same views, respect his enthusiasm for the team. And if that doesn’t work demonstrate why he should respect your passion
7. Share Your Own Interests: Use this opportunity to share your own interests or favorite sports teams, creating a balance in your discussions. Pique his interest with a cheerleader outfit you still have!
8. Keep it Lighthearted: If you find yourself disagreeing, keep the conversation lighthearted and fun. Sports debates can be entertaining when approached with a sense of humor. If lighthearted doesn’t work there is always fun in each room of the home.
9. Encourage Critical Thinking: If he’s receptive, encourage him to consider different perspectives and the unpredictability of sports. This can lead to deeper discussions about competition. NEVER criticise his performance on the ‘field’.
10. Evaluate the Importance: Consider how significant this belief is in the context of your relationship. If it’s just a lighthearted opinion, it may not require extensive discussion. It is all about ROI – maybe investing 80 minutes in his game will get 80 minutes of housework out of him in those shorts you love to see him in!

If all you get out of this is one more rugby player after 9 months then please name him/her SIYA!

Celebrating each other’s interests can strengthen your bond and reduce blueness in certain areas without the use of anything Blue – Bulls, Coffin Shaped Tablets etc.!