• Skip to main content
  • Skip to header right navigation
  • Skip to after header navigation
  • Skip to site footer
MyZA

MyZA

News, Directory, Events and Other Stuff

  • Social Media
  • Sport
  • World News
  • Home
  • Submit News
  • Directory
  • Events
  • Stratlec
  • TFSA
  • News
    • APO
    • Today’s Sport News
    • Todays Social Media and Tech Headlines
    • Today’s World News
    • Today’s SA Financial News
  • Contact
You are here: Home / News / South African Men May Now Take Their Wife’s Surname – Why Traditional Leaders Are Upset

South African Men May Now Take Their Wife’s Surname – Why Traditional Leaders Are Upset

20 September 2025 by Guest

Although the judgment promotes gender equality, it opens another chapter in the struggle between customs and constitutional rights.

A unanimous Constitutional Court ruling has sparked fierce controversy by affirming the right of South African men to adopt their wives’ surnames if they wish to.

It emerged from a lawsuit against the Department of Home Affairs by Henry van der Merwe, who was denied the legal right to take the surname of his wife, Jana Jordaan, and Andreas Nicolas Bornman, who could not hyphenate his surname to include the surname of his wife, Jess Donnelly-Bornman. They asked the judges to confirm an order of constitutional invalidity granted by the High Court in Bloemfontein.

The Constitutional Court affirmed that section 26(1) of the Registration of Births and Deaths Act of 1992 violates gender equality and reinforces patriarchy. It suspended its invalidation and gave parliament two years to amend it.

My research specialises in the interaction of legal systems, including their effect on customary marriages. I have also served as an advisor to the South African Law Reform Commission. In my view, the judgment puts customary law squarely in the spotlight.

In South Africa, statutory and customary laws exist side by side, but their relationship is unequal because statutory laws regulate the validity of customs. This creates tension between the two because judges interpret customs from a western viewpoint, which often annoys people who observe customary laws.

Although the Constitutional Court judgment rightly seeks to promote gender equality, it opens another chapter in the struggle between customs and constitutional rights.

Table of Contents

Toggle
  • Controversy
  • Recognition of Customary Marriages Act
  • Is marital surname even customary law?
  • Custom versus constitution
  • Going forward

Controversy

Even though men can choose whether or not they want to take their wife’s surname, the judgment has generated intense controversy. Notably, the Congress of Traditional Leaders of South Africa condemned it as “disgusting, anti-African” and a recipe for “chaos and confusion”. In their view, it undermines indigenous values, erodes cultural identity, and threatens succession norms in traditional communities.




Read more:
Understanding the relevance of African customary law in modern times


From a legal perspective, the ruling throws up some practical challenges in polygamous marriages and royal succession. For example, how does a man choose a surname from one of several wives? Can a king disrupt the royal naming system by switching his surname? Then there’s the intriguing issue of bride-wealth (ilobolo).

Recognition of Customary Marriages Act

Section 1 of the Recognition of Customary Marriages Act defines bride-wealth as “property, whether in cash or in kind, that a prospective husband or the head of his family undertakes to provide to the head of the prospective wife’s family in consideration of a customary marriage”.

Although the act doesn’t explicitly make it compulsory, bride-wealth is central to the validity of customary marriages. It legitimates unions between families and confers rights on children to bear the name of their father. Since bride-wealth confers paternal name rights, a woman might have to pay bride-wealth for her husband to take her surname. This could require an amendment of the act.

But it may not be necessary to amend it. There’s a sense in which the surname judgment tests people’s awareness of the need for cultural change. So, let us examine surnames as a colonial import in Africa.

Is marital surname even customary law?

The practice of an African wife taking her husband’s surname is not indigenous. In fact, surname usage is a relatively modern phenomenon. It emerged in Europe in the 1500s and 1600s. Europeans imposed it on Africans to streamline their colonial administration and consolidate control over their subjects.

Under Europe’s patriarchal doctrine of coverture, a married woman’s husband controlled her assets and represented her legally. In South Africa marital surnames spread after receiving backing from the Aliens Act of 1937.

Delivering the new surname judgment, Justice Leonie Theron stated:

This practice reinforced patriarchal norms, where women were seen as subordinate or legally inferior (akin to a minor) to their husbands and expected to assume their identity.

In Africa, the naming process embodies individual or group social experiences, religion, values, statuses, roles, and personality. Originally, men and women referred to themselves as the child of someone, without emphasising surnames.

Research shows gender flexibility in many African communities, with women retaining their birth names after marriage. Indeed, children could take their mother’s clan name.




Read more:
South African marriage ruling is a win for divorcees and surviving spouses: it guides the sharing of their assets


The European origin of surnames calls into question the resistance to cultural changes. Did marital surnames transform into African customary law? Should colonial changes be considered customary law? Research has not resolved this later question.

Critics say the surname judgment imposes western ideas on traditional societies. But if Africans have accepted changes from colonialism (and globalisation) as customary law, then they should accept men taking their wives’ surnames. After all, they have embraced Christianity and western forms of education, technology, and (personal) income.

Any argument that surnames underpin bloodlines, identity and leadership succession should recognise that marital surnames are a colonial import. It’s my view that some customary practices are no longer suited to modernity and need to change with the times.

Nonetheless, the judgment reflects longstanding tensions between customary laws and constitutional rights.

Custom versus constitution

In South Africa, disparate legal systems such as Roman Dutch law, English common law, customary laws and religious personal laws coexist. The constitution, adopted in 1996, recognises this legal pluralism by supposedly giving equal status to these systems.

So, the judgment should not apply to Africans who live by customary laws. This is what genuine autonomy in normative co-existence – deep legal pluralism – means. But this is not the case.

The constitution relies on a bill of rights to regulate the validity of customary laws. This regulation resonates with regulation during colonialism, when European judges used the “repugnancy test” to prohibit customs they deemed incompatible with statutory laws and notions of natural justice, equity, and good conscience.

Here’s the problem: judicial development of customs focuses on human dignity, equality and non-discrimination, which have different meanings in African culture. Because of their training, judges tend to interpret these rights in a Eurocentric manner that fails to accommodate cultural differences.




Read more:
South Africa’s new Marriage Bill raises many thorny issues – a balancing act is needed


As I argued previously, the proposed Single Marriage Bill demonstrates how statutory laws force western culture on Africans by imposing a uniform framework on every marriage, including a customary one.

Going forward

Judges must be careful how they handle struggle between legal systems to avoid offending the dignity of people who observe customary laws. Liberal law reforms risk erasing cultural and religious diversity by standardising behaviour.




Read more:
Royal Zulu divorce drama: South African traditions are having to change with the times


Ultimately, customary rites, polygamous unions and initiation ceremonies may lose their cultural flavours. This would dilute the uniqueness of social life in traditional communities.

Judges should avoid marginalising traditional leaders and faith-based institutions. Doing so undermines legal pluralism in South Africa’s multicultural nation.

The Conversation

Anthony Diala works for the University of the Western Cape. He previously received funding from the National Research Foundation of South Africa. He serves on an Advisory Committee of the South African Law Reform Commission. However,he writes in a personal capacity. His views here do not necessarily represent the views of these organisations.

Read More at the Source

Share this:

  • Share on X (Opens in new window) X
  • Share on Facebook (Opens in new window) Facebook
  • Print (Opens in new window) Print
  • Email a link to a friend (Opens in new window) Email
  • Share on LinkedIn (Opens in new window) LinkedIn
  • Share on Tumblr (Opens in new window) Tumblr
  • Share on WhatsApp (Opens in new window) WhatsApp
  • Share on Mastodon (Opens in new window) Mastodon
Category: NewsTag: ACT, Africa, African, Bloemfontein, CAN, children, divorce, Education, Family, GOOD, head, Identity, law, Man, marriage, new, ONE, Parliament, Registration, relationship, Religion, South Africa, Technology, The Conversation, Western Cape, Women

If you feel strongly about this article then feel free to send MyZA a ‘Letter to the Editor’ using the submission form below:


Letter to the Editor

This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.
If this is in response to an article please include that article title here or as the lead in for the first paragraph of your Letter below.

Separate tags with commas

Localise your letter by naming the city your words are about. Add relevant words describing your subject. Single comma separated words of no more than 5
Your Name(Required)
Your Name will be linked to the website below.
Your personal, business or social media web site
Choose NO to not set up a user account on MyZA. User Accounts will allow you to submit letters under your own Author Name

3 Latest Letters to the Editor:

  • Fun South African fact

    Dear Editor Fun South African fact: towns like Franschhoek and Stellenbosch are home to world-class wine farms set in stunning, scenic surroundings. Regards Aressa Smith In Response to/From: Luxury Properties Seized in New Lottery Crackdown

    27 January 2026
  • Condolences on the Passing of Lusanda Dumke

    Statement by Leander Kruger MPL – DA Buffalo City Constituency Leader: The Democratic Alliance in Buffalo City Metropolitan Municipality mourns the passing of Springbok Women’s rugby player and Mdantsane trailblazer, Lusanda Dumke, who lost her battle with cancer at the age of 28. South Africa has lost an exceptional athlete, a leader, and a source…

    17 December 2025
  • Rape Kits Delivered, But…

    Statement by Nicholas Gotsell MP – DA NCOP Member on Security & Justice: The DA can confirm that 2 840 rape kits arrived in Cape Town on Monday, following sustained DA oversight and pressure after multiple police stations across the Western Cape were found to be without this critical forensic evidence tool. While this delivery…

    17 December 2025

About Guest

Previous Post:Remithope Seeks to Raise Us$100 000 for 10 Grassroots Organisations in Africa
Next Post:SA Hockey Announces SA U21 Men’s Final Selection Camp Squad for 2025 Junior World Cup | SA News

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. Don Stab

    21 September 2025 at 11:11 am

    Fun South African Fact: South Africa is home to the world’s longest wine route: Route 62. It spans an impressive 850 kilometres and the excellent wineries along the way are a must-visit for lovers of fine wine! You can even enjoy the winelands on a day trip from Cape Town. Travel 40-min to an hour outside of the city centre to enjoy decadent wine tastings and even wander through some of the beautiful wine farms and estates! Suburbs like Durbanville and Constantia are even closer to the city centre and are also home to many exceptional wineries.

  2. Flash Protein

    21 September 2025 at 11:06 am

    Fun South African Fact: There are eight unbelievable world heritage sites in South Africa.

Copyright © 2026 · MyZA · All Rights Reserved · Powered by Reach Trust